Strange things your keyholder has said?

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gungadn
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Strange things your keyholder has said?

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My keyholder/wife said something to me the other day that I thought was unexpected. Usually we all think that Chastity Devices can be used to prevent infidelity.... However, she asked me "when you are locked up, you are much more attentive to my needs. Does that make you the same way with other women at your work?" She was a little worried that the CD could actually be causing issues.

Has anyone else's keyholder ever said anything similar or had similar worries? I just explained that it only makes me more attentive to the holder of the key. But, I wonder what others thoughts on this would be.

Quick background, I have been a member since 2011. Mostly just lurk as my situation was not conducive to contributing to a meaningful conversation. But, my situation has recently changed drastically. I will try to do a post with more details later. But, for now, I may be participating in chats a little more often.
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Wow. First I've heard of this. :?
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I certainly don't get more attentive to other woman. Makes me hyper focused on my wife
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I had an interesting dream last night that relates to her fears. I was in an apartment in NYC with a sexy woman who was hot for me. Part of me wanted to stay but I tore myself away. When I got to the exterior door some people came in from the outside covered with ice. They said it was sticking to everything. The perfect excuse to go back to Ms. Sexy. But I didn't. I went out and found that there wasn't any ice or snow at all. So home I went to my lovely wife.
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Last weekend I got a rather unexpected "you make me feel bad." I let her know that I was okay with being let out of the cage for some fun.

It wasn't the first time nor will it be the last but this time she reacted very emotionally.
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Interesting thought.

I am totally focused on my wife's needs, and not just sexually.

Makes me wonder for those who have a friend hold their key. Do they become focused on them in hopes for release or is it like dropping your key off in a safety deposit box at the bank?
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Lockedchef wrote:I certainly don't get more attentive to other woman. Makes me hyper focused on my wife
Yes. My (our) experience too.
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Thanks everyone. Being focused on her is my experience as well. Her statement really caught me by surprise. But, she is a new keyholder. And, I certainly didnt want to discount her concerns. But, make sure i try to understand them and communicate. So, it is nice to see others feel the same as I do.
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