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[LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

Postby LockedByBD » Thu Feb 08, 2018 6:25 pm

Hearing Aid

It has been exactly two weeks today since the latest lockup. The first thing I've noticed this time is how much better I listen while wearing her cage. She speaks and I pay attention. I think I also hear her more now because I tend to be around her much more. Instead of TV or the computer I tend to be in the room she is in more now. I now call her cage my hearing aid.
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Re: Locked in a Cage Again

Postby LockedByBD » Thu Feb 08, 2018 6:27 pm

Sex Redefined

One morning during my last lockup she played with my scrotum and the little bits squeezing through the bars of her cage. When I asked for sex she told me that we'd just had sex. So now anytime she plays with her locked up toy ... that's our new sex. For instance, this morning we were in the shower together. She soaped up her cage and washed my scrotum and what she could of my penis. That's now, according to her, sex. So I am getting "sex" every day or two ... it's just not what it used to be!

I think she loves driving me wild.
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Re: Locked in a Cage Again

Postby LockedByBD » Thu Feb 08, 2018 6:29 pm

New Attitude

Like many wives I've read about on this site, my wife has been slow to indulge in chastity play. But now she seems to be a bit more comfortable having me locked up. She said she enjoys it, and enjoys being able to tease me. I think it's because I'm really taking it slow. She leaves for work before I do, and the last few days there has been snow or ice on her car. Twice now I've thrown on clothes and boots and grabbed a broom to clear off snow ... without her asking. I pointed out that she literally has her lover by the balls: she could simply stay inside where it's warm and send me out in the snow. She just smiles. I've even asked her what she wants me to do now that she has control over me. She says she'll think about it.

Before we drift off to sleep every night I tell her I love her. I tell her I was good today and didn't have illicit sex (erections or orgasms). And then I thank her for keeping me locked up. I think she likes that.
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Re: Locked in a Cage Again

Postby LockedByBD » Thu Feb 08, 2018 6:30 pm

Breakfast

When we were first married I believe I used to be about six inches long. Now, when I'm uncaged and get an erection I get up to just over five. This morning at breakfast the weather report told of more snow coming this evening, up to six inches. I asked her how she would like six inches tonight. She laughed and said "It's been a long time since I've seen six inches! A LONG time!"

At least she gets a laugh out of it!
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Re: [LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

Postby LockedByBD » Mon Feb 12, 2018 4:35 pm

Contented

This is Day 17. I've now gone three weekends locked in chastity. Over the weekend the wife seemed happy, and she showed no signs of wanting to unlock me, and no indication of when she might want to unlock me. I have a medical appointment coming up and I will ask to be unlocked only for that. I hope she agrees, because as of now only her and I know of our game. At least I'm calling it a game. She is content with the way things are.

I now seem to have what I wanted. If I'm honest with myself I wanted to see how it felt to be frustrated for days, at her mercy. I just don't know how many more days I want this to go on. It looks like I'm going to find out.
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Re: [LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

Postby Nevermore » Tue Feb 13, 2018 3:36 am

Sexual frustration is a powerful motivator to be more alternative to the needs of our partners. Ultimately though, it should simply be a tool in conditioning us to resist our more selfish impulses.
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Re: [LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

Postby LockedByBD » Wed Feb 21, 2018 7:39 am

it should simply be a tool in conditioning us to resist our more selfish impulses


It certainly does help us with our more selfish impulses. I'm not sure "resist" is the correct word if we don't have much say in the matter! Most of the resistance is steel. But I believe you're right: I'm learning to be less selfish.
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Re: [LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

Postby LockedByBD » Wed Feb 21, 2018 7:47 am

Lent

Last Wednesday was the start of Lent. Since she's from a Catholic background my wife sometimes gives up something for Lent. She suggested that maybe she would give up sex for Lent... or rather give up my having sex for Lent. That's an additional six weeks. That would be nine weeks total. I've never gone more than five. Blows my mind. I don't know if I like that or not. I suppose I will find out! :?
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Re: [LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

Postby LockedByBD » Wed Feb 21, 2018 7:57 am

Conversation

Last weekend, the fourth under the current lock-up, she inspected my cage while we were in the shower. She asked me how I got interested in chastity play. I told her the truth: I ran across it on the internet and it stuck in my mind. I thought it would help balance out my greater frequency of requesting sex versus her lesser inclination. She asked about how I acquired the cage I have now. I reminded her how, a couple years ago, we fooled around with a plastic cage until it broke. After that happened I did some research and found a better alternative. I asked her if she liked having it on me. She replied "Well, you've been more attentive." I had to agree.

I'm glad she asked. It was a short, but good, conversation. It shows me that she's much more comfortable with the idea. Especially since she then patted my cage and requested I wash her back before she stepped out and toweled off.
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Re: [LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

Postby LockedByBD » Thu Feb 22, 2018 5:47 pm

More Conversation

Before going to bed last night I asked my wife if we could talk a bit. I told her of the paradox I was facing: loving how I was pleasing her by being frustrated. And the frustration was due to not getting what I wanted ... which is what I really wanted because she wanted it. (Confused? Yeah, me too!) She told me she is comfortable and happy with me locked.

I told her it is her key, and her lock, trapping her toy, that just happens to be attached to my body. And if she wanted to keep me locked up for days or weeks more, it was her decision. She seemed to like that. She seems to have grown comfortable with controlling me sexually. We exchanged a kiss, and then she rolled over and went to sleep.

And after all that conversation, I still don't know what she intends to do! Time will tell just how long I'm locked.
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