[Experimenting] Journey into a new lifestyle

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Experimenting
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[Experimenting] Journey into a new lifestyle

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Hello everyone,


I have been reading these forums for some months now, and now that my wife has agreed to be my KH I will post the start of our journey.

So a little info about us. We've been happily married for 3 years now. I am in my early 30's, she is 26. We both like eating and staying healthy. So we are in good shape. She is amazingly beautiful, 5"6 with long dark brown hair and brown eyes. She has always been on the shy side, and we have worked together to make her feel more confident about the decisions she makes. When I met her, I was allready used to seeing porn / kinky things, but for her it was completely new and she was not kinky at all. We are both very loving, and are in an amazing relationship full of respect, honesty, and friendship. We can't imagine living without the other person. We talk about everything, and don't have any secrets (maybe that will change now that she is my princess :) )

We have been doing some very light bondange, and trying different things here and there. But over the last few months we agreed (or she took it upon herself to order me) to wear the cage to help me with my masturbation and porn addiction. We had played with chastity in the past, but she did not really like it because she said it looked painful and did not want my penis to become damaged. The first cage we had was a plastic CB6000 which was a bootleg model. It was not very comfortable overall because of the pinching.

I do not know if I am allowed to put an image of a cage here. If I am not, I can take it off.
I recently ordered a metal cage much like this one:
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It is so much better than the plastic one, no pinching at all, and I am very comfortable with it on, except with tight pants.

Ever since I can remember, I have always liked doing things so that I could forget about them and move on to the next. I think this lead me to be a submissive husband. I would often wash the dishes, or make the bed, or even cook for her or bring her breakfast in bed. All her life she was the one that always helped her parents, and cleaned etc. So naturally she felt bad about me doing so many things, and she often fears that people think she is lazy. We have talked many times that I love doing the things I do because I love her, and I don't feel bad, or angry doing any of those things at all.

So fast forward to today. She is much more confident about herself, her decisions, and seeing me do many things around the house. She now understands more clearly the type of fetishes that I have, and she has agreed to play with the idea that she is the princess and I am her slave (can I say that in this site?). I have told her to not be so nice to me, and not feel bad about ordering me around. So now she demands that I do things without feeling bad about it. Sometimes when I show some hesitation in doing something, she will look at me with a serious face.

So the day it started was 4 days ago. She told me "If you wear the cage, it will be by my rules. And you are not allowed to see any porn, or captions, or anything at all that I do not want you to see. You have to learn to not look at those things." It has been very hard to controll my porn habit all this time. But when she said it like this, I really wanted to please her, and I really want to only serve her. So I agreed. She then said, "Ok, starting from tomorrow, the FIRST thing you are going to do, after waking up, will be to put your cage on. I am going to own you until I am satisfied that I can trust you (to not masturbate when she is not with me)." This was one of the hottest things she has said, and I was so happy to hear that and I told her that yes I agreed.

So these last 3 days have been amazing for both of us. I have been able to serve and fulfill all her requests without hesitation. I have not looked at porn or images of naked girls at all (only with her). She has been very satisfied with my performance, and she is becoming very good at being a princess and KH. Unfortunately she got a cold when we started, so she has been feeling under the weather these days. But I guess it was good because I was able to take care of her like a good husband :) . She loved it. There has not been any orgasm for either of us because of her not feeling too well. But I think that will change soon (at least for her :) ). I am new to this lifestyle, and like many before me, I am unsure and a bit scared of what it will be like in the future. I think this is the direction I want to go though, because I have always been fascinated with the idea of serving a beautiful woman, and now I can express that desire with my wife. She has been on a rough trip with me because of my masturbation addiction, we have tried so many ways for me to stop looking at porn, and I think this may be the best solution for both of us. I am very excited about the future of our relationship, if we keep going down this path.

I am new to this site, so I hope I have not written anything that I should not have.
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It's all good so far "Experimenting".

Looking like you and your newly acquired KH/Wife are off to a good start. A lot smoother than many of us here.

Good luck, welcome to the CF, and keep us posted on your Journey.
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Re: [Experimenting] Journey into a new lifestyle

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I had that same cage for a while. It was comfortable enough, but prone to rusting. If this becomes a thing you want to pursue long term, I suggest a custom cage. The difference is night and day.
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Re: [Experimenting] Journey into a new lifestyle

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Thanks locked4her55 and Namron, I would like a custom cage down the future, if we decide to continue this. We have to save up though, cause we are a bit on a tight budget right now.

Yesterday we were watching tv, and it was starting to get a little late. Usually we ask each other if we want to watch one more episode, or just go to sleep. But this time she asked me "Pleeeease lets watch another episode, if we do, I'll give you a blowjob!" I was so surprised by this since she wasnt the sexually agressive type when I met her. I was not even sure if she was going to follow through with it. I asked her "You will give me a blowjob?", and she said "Yes, I'll give you a quickie."

I answered, "Ok sure." And she grabbed my cage and started rattling it and shaking it a bit and she said, "Ok heres your quickie :D ". She kept doing that for like 10 seconds and then stopped, she was laughing and smiling so much. I was so aroused and turned on by what a tease she has become!

Then she said, "And here's your blowjob." And she blew air on my face!!! lol. It made me love her so much and lust for her so much more as well. She was smiling and laughing the whole time, and I was grateful that she is taking this role playing quite well. She is really embracing the fact that she gets all the pleasure, and she is understanding that I want to withhold my orgasms for her because I treasure her so much. I love it :) :)
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