[echobravo] how we started

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echobravo
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[echobravo] how we started

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I had been looking at chastity porn and stories for a long time.

Starting with altarboy's website a zillion years ago, then recently across tumblr as this kink seems to have taken off - I was the typical male looking at wanking material. I don't know why, but I always found male chastity arousing.

I can't say I planned it!

We went out for dinner - I had a drink or two more than usual - then we came home.

We were sitting on the couch watching TV and somehow I decided to talk to her about what I'd been looking at.

I was nervous. I was sweating. I was stammering. My wife is very patient.

I told her that I'd found something on the net - hot, kinky, and very weird. You can order a device to lock around your stuff to prevent erections and hand over control to your sex. The woman is in control.

She was slightly weirded out, but my wife is very open minded. She said sure - order one. We referred to it as the Cage.

It came in. We played around. I'd be locked for a couple of days, go down on her, and then we'd have great sex.

I was running the show.

This went on for some time. It was cool. It was hot. Male fantasies - all good. As a couple with a couple of kids, this spiced things up. All good.

One day, months after we started, I got a text. "I have decided to institute some new rules in our arrangement. I will explain them to you when you get home"

My wife was interested in hot things to say while having sex in our new arrangement, and stumbled upon Female Led Relationship (FLR) websites. She had an epiphany - she holds the key, she makes the rules.

My vanilla wife really liked that idea.

I came home to an empty house, as she had sent the kids out for an hour - she sat me down and we had a Talk. Rules.

I was to exercise? I was to clean the bathrooms? I was to clean out the cats' litter boxes? Wait - what does this have to do with sex?

The male and female perspectives on sex are quite different.

In my head, it's all femdom sex, denial and release.

In our case now, my wife (now KH) decided to take advantage of the sexual kink to make things better in our relationship from her perspective. I'm exercising. I'm cleaning the litter boxes. I have chores.

She has also taken a very active interest in orgasm control.

Things seem to be better all around - more information to come.
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