[SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!

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Re: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!

Postby sirmebane » Tue Oct 10, 2017 6:54 am

69 days without an orgasm
23 days remain in current lockup

This week wasn't a sexual odyssey of discovery and we had plenty to keep us busy but that didn't stop me from thinking about my situation. My cheap Chinese cage has been pinching, poking and chewing me in various places for the year I have been wearing it. When we started this 18 months ago, we were trying to find a cage that works... it took four cages to get there. The cheap cage route was the best way to try on various sizes and styles without burning through 100's of dollars and failing utterly.

The constant advice I have read is find a custom maker and spend the money, it is completely worth it. One of the other points frequently made is to buy the Bird Cage from Mature Metal. It is the best of the best without question, the most comfortable and so on and so on. I had suggested that as an option to my wife when we started but she was put off by the price and I wasn't ready to say this was worth it either.

This week I made my case and made it clear that if we wanted to continue to play with chastity, we needed to make an investment. She wasn't enthusiastic but agreed we would likely continue and "I want you to be comfortable. How much is it? Wait, don't tell me... I don't want to know." My wife approved the purchase and I ordered it the next day. Now I get to wait for 6-8 weeks to see if I screwed this up. My Chinese cage is about as close to a perfect fit as possible and I copied the specs with some slight changes for a little better, more snug here and there. I'm excited and terrified all at the same time.

Jail Bird cage was ordered on October 5th so I'm hopeful that it'll be in hand by Thanksgiving. Now we'll have to decide where to go from there.

Sunday night my expectations weren't very high because there was a lot going on with the family, kids were in motion everywhere and I wasn't getting the "sexy time" vibe from my wife. I had determined that I would keep my eye on football and other distractions so I wouldn't get disappointed. The weekend is about the only time we get to play and things were too busy, then... she brushed my bare leg with her clad in my favorite leggings. Hmm... I noticed but still wasn't sure she was just trying to get around the couch. When she returned, she brushed me again but more deliberate and slowly this time. She's in a mood to tease. YES!

During the evening, she used some comments on the phone that had double meaning but looked straight at me while she said them. YES! She gave me her eyes a few times and I get so lost in her eyes, she uses them as a weapon.

I thought that was the end of it but when we went to bed for the evening she tells me, "I have a plan." That is very good news. "Do you want to hear it?" Of course I wanted to hear it but I kept my mouth shut and started at her with my full attention.

"You're going to give me a foot rub because I really enjoy those more than anything else. I am going to unlock you for the purposes of teasing. You'll edge yourself for 3 minutes with a pair of panties and then I'm going to lock you back up." That's not very long. "That is what I have decided and it isn't up for discussion."

My cage was full and my heart was jumping for joy. She was going to get and give exactly what she wanted tonight. Her feet got the full treatment and then it was time for her to open the cage. I had been stiff during the discussion but now I had gotten limp and I worried if I was going to have a problem. When the lock opened and the cage came off, she handed me a pair of satin panties while my cock grew to full mast. It felt wonderful without anything even touching it yet, I miss erections.

"This seems like torture to me." I didn't disagree but I did smile. She held out her phone and brought up a timer app, set it for three minutes and then asked, "Do you want to watch it count down or not?" I wanted to watch it, please. "I'll work up top and you work down below but remember that you're not allowed to come." I was trying to catch up from that amazing concept when I looked at the phone to see 2:57... she had already started it while staring deeply into my eyes which got me going quickly.

My wife went to work sucking and pinching my nipples while I carefully worked the panties up and down my shaft. One minute in things started to feel so good but I knew I could go even further so I kept up the pace and so did she. Two minutes in I had to slow down but she didn't hold back and by the time the timer was 30 seconds I had to stop, I had to stop her stimulation to keep from coming.

I felt everything in me pulse, I was sure I had gone too far. *PULSE* *PULSE* *PULSE* It was the spasms of an ejaculation without anything coming out. She counted down the seconds while I concentrated hard on not coming.

"25 seconds. 20 seconds. 15 seconds. 10 seconds. 5 seconds. That's it." I couldn't do anything for fear of ending up with a full orgasm. It turns out that I didn't need 3 minutes. I only used 2 minutes 27 seconds before I couldn't handle anything else. She'll remember that.

"Time to lock it up." I put the cage back on, she slid the integrated lock back in place and took away the panties. I was still breathing hard and struggling to understand how I had not come or even had a ruined orgasm. I guess I stopped at the right time.

"Did you enjoy that?" Talking wasn't a skill I had regained yet but I grunted my approval while I tried to catch my breath. She had invested maybe 10 minutes from end to end and I was a quivering happy mess more in love with her than I could say.

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Re: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!

Postby sirmebane » Mon Oct 16, 2017 6:34 am

76 days without an orgasm
16 days remain in current lockup

The week was another busy one with work and family, getting caught up with things at work before a short weekend trip a few hours away. I got ready for the trip on Thursday morning only to discover the cage was digging into my skin again. Grrr. The weekend would have to been unlocked.

I was hopeful of some playtime since we wouldn't have all the kids and the one we had would be with others for most of the weekend. Yeah, that didn't work out. We stayed in motion nearly all four days we were gone and both pretty tired by the time we went to bed. No playtime. Sigh. Life sucks when you're horny.

We rolled back into town and got things settled down just in time for Sunday evening to blossom with all the "homework forgotten." Sigh.

I had given up on any excitement to check on work e-mails when my beautiful wife said, "Don't get too comfortable, I want a foot rub." When all toes and carpals were massaged she utters the words that make my heart skip a beat. "I have a plan."

She wanted to repeat the timed panty tease from last week. "This time I'm going to give you 5 minutes." I wasn't comfortable with this plan as I had nearly come from the 3 minutes she gave me last week. It was all I could do not to let it go. I'd have to pace myself carefully.

I grabbed a pair of satin panties and assumed the position. She set the timer on her phone but had a wrinkle for me tonight. "I'm not going to let you watch it this time." So many things going through my mind and she reminds me, "You are not allowed to come." Off we go.

My erection was ready to go and the soft satin felt sooooo goooood. I would have to take this very carefully. She worked my nipples and we kissed passionately while I regretted thoroughly asking for a 90 day lockup. Curious, she checked the phone and then showed it to me... 3:30 done with 90 seconds to go. "Wow, that went fast didn't it." My whole masturbatory world was now in chaos. Stay on the edge but don't go over, time is running out.

The clock struck zero and I kept going while she watched and waited for me to stop. "You're pushing it there mister." I let go and she continued to rub my chest and tease me a little. Woof. I asked her why I had asked for 90 days without an orgasm. Why?

"I don't know. Because you're crazy?"

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Re: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!

Postby sirmebane » Wed Oct 25, 2017 8:37 pm

83 days without an orgasm
7 days remain in current lockup

My original goal was 90 days and I made it easy for both of us by simply saying the 90 day goal would be done on November 1. It was somewhat past 90 days but it was easier math than actually counting the days until...

"Would you be disappointed if I unlocked you before November 1?" I wasn't sure where she was going with the question when she said, "I was thinking about your birthday." Oooohhhhh. I knew there was some excess in the dates and I told her I would count the days, it might work out that both goals can be met.

"Okay, I want a foot rub." Yes, ma'am. I worked the knots out of her tired feet while she formulated the plan for the evening. "Tonight you'll get five minutes just like last week, unless you think you can handle six." Gulp. Umm. I think I can handle six if I'm careful. She unlocked me and told me to get a pair of satin panties. I was unlocked and I stripped down.

Like weeks prior, I was teased without mercy while I stroked as gently as possible. She took one nipple in her mouth and alternated between sucking hard and biting lightly. Her hand had my other nipple which she pinched and pulled alternating between medium and very rough. In times past she would make this motion to hurry me up and get me to come. I was in heaven and working the satin over nerve endings that were eager to fire.

She checked the clock... 1:30 expired, 4:30 to go. Her technique had gotten ahead of my pacing and I was in trouble. I went as slow as I could but at this rate it wasn't entirely impossible that her nipple tease wouldn't be enough to push me over without aggressive stroking. We continued as I breathed through some spasms. I had to stop all stimulation twice to keep from going too far. This is awesome and challenging all at the same time.

She checked the clock 4:00 minutes gone, 2:00 minutes left. Crap. She upped her game while I limited my touches to the head alone until I had to take yet another break. Eventually the time ran out and we continued kissing as I thought how wonderful it would be to penetrate her at the moment. She called it quits and locked me back up. I offered to pleasure her but she wasn't in the mood, maybe in a few days.

In the morning as she applied her makeup, I slipped in behind her and hugged her. I did the math and the 90 days is technically complete the day BEFORE my birthday. She acknowledged the information with just a simple, "Ok."

Now I don't know what will happen and I have learned not to ask. She doesn't know what she'll do but for the first time she's giving it some thought more than a day in advance. I can't wait for this to come to an end and yet I don't want this to end. I have a week to consider my fate.

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Re: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!

Postby sirmebane » Thu Nov 02, 2017 8:35 pm

90 days complete.

Actually, 92 days complete.

Wife asked if I needed to go to November to make 90 days or when did it end. I let her know (after careful counting) that 90 days would be the day before my birthday. That worked perfectly with her plan to have me released and pleasured for my birthday.

Having placed that idea in my head I was prepared and eager to go on my birthday. We didn't have a day that was too busy but after the cake and the running around, we went to bed and she fell asleep. It was then that her comment the day before struck me, "You better hope I don't make you wait another day."

No, she isn't that person even though I would love for her to become that person, she isn't. She just fell asleep. I didn't say a word even though it was my birthday, even though she hadn't teased me all week, even though I was thinking how awesome it would be to get out and orgasm. I said nothing.

Next day we did our regular schedule and I was wrapping up the day watching the World Series when she says to me, "I have a plan. You lick me for a little while and then I'll let you come." She then asked me if I wanted to remove the cage before or after I licked her which I didn't want to decide. We elected to leave the cage on until AFTER and I went to work on her.

She was unusually quiet but seemed to enjoy herself and then it was my turn to go. It has been so long and everything felt so good, I told her I wouldn't be able to last very long. "We'll have to work on building back your stamina."

It has been one month since I ordered my Jail Bird... counting the day.

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Re: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!

Postby Tullyboy » Fri Nov 03, 2017 8:41 am

I’ve enjoyed reading your journey. It’s very encaouraging; thanks for sharing it with us.
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Re: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!

Postby sirmebane » Mon Nov 06, 2017 8:06 pm

After the 92 day lock up, my lovely wife decided it was time to put the cage away for a while. I welcomed the break and it would give me a chance to catch up on my orgasms since I was loose. Time and opportunity don't always work their way toward me at the same time so it was after some yard work on Saturday when I had my quick pull. While it was pleasurable, it wasn't intense and was fairly mechanical. It satisfied and cleared the system which is all I wanted it to do.

I said nothing about chastity, I expressed no disappointment nor elation at not being locked up right away. She didn't tease for most of the work and we went about our business. I didn't hint, I didn't whine, I went about the business of being me and let her be her. I wasn't really sure if she planned to wait until the end of November when the Jail Bird arrived. I had no idea when or where or even if she might discuss the cage again but I left it up to her.

As is her habit, she started giving thoughts to sex during the weekend. During lunch with the kids she leans over to me and whispers, "I have a plan." She was impressed with herself because she knew what she wanted long before I would expected it and wanted it known. She didn't let on to her plans but had a big smile knowing what she knew wouldn't be something that I knew anytime soon.

The night held an adventure for us and only she knew what was going to happen.

That evening we did our running around, she finished off her chores and went upstairs. I was trying to finish up things and realized I was the only one left who hadn't gone to bed. When I went to our room I found her posed for a foot rub and a little irritated that I hadn't caught on that she was waiting for me. "I called you twice." Ummm... okay. Never heard it.

When I brought her feet a relaxing massage and cleaned up she let me know what the night would hold. It was late because we had started shutting down the evening late and I had slowed us down even more by being slow-witted. "I'm going to use the vibrator, after that I want you inside me and then we're going to lock you up."

Yes, ma'am!

She had pre-positioned the vibe but was immediately disappointed to find the batteries were dead. We have more downstairs, I offered helpfully. "You go get them." It wasn't a request. I went down and returned with the batteries in hand to return to the bed.

"You better get your cage while you're up. We have things to do and you're right there." I pulled the cage out of the drawer and put it close by on the headboard. Fresh batteries in the vibrator and she was off. I participated as best I could while she enjoyed the sensation.

"Mmmmm that was good but it's your turn now. I love how this feels." She was getting exactly what she wanted, exactly how she wanted and she was talking to me about what she enjoyed. I was excited. We kissed, she groped, she nibbled my nipples and then it was time.

I might have lasted as long as I had the week before which was surprising since I had just come a little over 24 hours before that at my own hand. I thought I would have more trouble and take longer but that just wasn't the case.

We cleaned up, dressed, I put on the cage which she promptly locked. She put away the key and we both fell asleep pretty fast after that.

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