[Her_M] Character Building

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[Her_M] Character Building

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I find the journey posts the most enjoyable of all within these forums. The candidness and expressed emotional vulnerability convey a sense of uncensored genuineness within the adventure.

My lady and I met in the summer of 2013 and have been fighting the compulsion to be with each other every minute ever since. We're both old enough to have the wisdom that we can't halt the rest of our lives as parents and professionals to enjoy each other's company. What works so well for us is that we give each other the space we need to be successful in all areas of life which simply makes our time together...well, simply incredible. I find her to be incredible in so many ways and I couldn't have pulled a "Weird Science" building of a woman to improve on her traits. I'm one very lucky man! And even luckier that she feels she's luckier than I am. A great amount of shared love between us.

I would have to say that my experience with chastity hasn't extended much beyond curiosity. It really started over the Christmas holiday where we were in separate states. We have both been avid masturbators throughout our adult lives. For some reason, we both committed to refrain while we were apart and enjoy the pent up energy together. That was certainly an intense reunion!

A couple of months later, I was browsing sex toys and jokingly laughed about the CB6K. She just said it was curious and after mulling it over, I ordered it a couple of weeks later. We played around with the chastity aspect a little but she simply likes sex and my having an orgasm too much. Although, she did say that I should order a steel CD for hygiene reasons if I really wanted to pursue it further. Done! But, her curiosity had waned and life happens.

This past weekend, I wore a HT2 and mailed her the key. She had only had a few hours sleep the prior three nights and I sent her a note saying that I was guaranteeing her a good night's sleep. While she was planning to make love that Friday night, she did say it was going to be a new adventure for both of us. And here is where I need to say that my Lady is the most accepting and least judgmental person I've ever met, bar none. Friday night ended up being an evening of shared chores. She was giggling at me though and commented how silly it was for me to lock myself up when I could be getting laid instead.

Saturday was more interesting. Our conversation sort of flowed into the chastity topic. She repeated her perspective that it was silly although if a guy were to have this kink, why would a woman complain that he was saving himself for her? But she wanted to know why. Oh, and she does have a degree in psychology. :) We talked back and forth and eventual came to the conclusion that it was a designation of power. Locking myself up and handing her the key was a massive symbol of trust and devotion that I want her to have the choice of the sexual power as she wants to hold it. This made a great deal of sense to her and added comments such as "Most women don't like their guys watching porn because it takes away her sexual power over him." And. then she thanked me for the gift and told me to go home to retrieve the second key. That night, we had our very first fight. A misunderstanding really. We've been working on a project together and I was frustrated that we weren't working well together or communicating to improve our efforts. She thought I was upset with her.

Sunday morning, we were able to talk through it and then she wanted make-up sex. Heck yeah!! We had a two hour window until her kids returned home. Four orgasms for her as I was holding back enjoying her pleasure. But, she reached down and grabbed me which was new. I asked if she was getting sore. "No, just making decisions." She let me go through several more start and stop motions until she grabbed me one last time and said "All done!" Well, not quite. She moved to giving me oral to get me back to my largest and then told me to lock up.

Monday night, she asked me how I was doing. I was enjoying the horny high, wanting to come, and absolutely enjoying just being with her. She looked at me and smiled, asked "are you feeling resentful?" "Not at all." "Good!" Quite a bit of verbal teasing commenced which got her all hot and bothered. I was unlocked, showered, and she went crazy on me. Crazy wonderfully good, I should say.

So tonight we were talking and I think she said "We can use the cage again in a couple of weeks once all of the craziness in our schedules subside." I didn't quite hear her clearly and she said it could wait for later.

Where we go from here is unknown. I only know that whatever we choose, it will be with much love, trust, and respect for each other.
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