[Mistress A]We are really doing this…
Posted: Wed Aug 27, 2014 10:31 pm
I am the KH to a very kinky husband, Mistress A Slave. I have always been open-minded about trying new things in bed but never had any specific fantasy or fetish. Mistress A Slave on the other hand had always had many different fantasies and things he wanted to do. After our 1st year of marriage we talked about chastity a few times and we decided to give it a try. My hubby tends to be a bit controlling when it comes to real life, so the first time we tried, it felt like he was pushing too hard and being too demanding. We tried for a little more than a month but I thought that "punishing" him and being "mean" to him would transform me into someone I am not, that we'd be disrespecting each other by doing so.
I had trouble to understand that being the dominant one in bed gave him the release he needed. I failed to comprehend that chastity is a lot more than just carrying a key around my neck. So we gave up on it before even trying.
A couple of months ago we started talking about chastity again and I decided to educate myself more on the matter. I started to experiment a little bit and follow the guidelines to see what we could get out of it. After a month of experimenting my opinion has completely changed, I feel like I've been the dominant one all along but just couldn't see it. We are back to a full FLR and I take a great deal of pleasure by making my husband do whatever I want, whenever I want and that makes us both happy. It's been a fun journey having a slave to fulfill my every demand anytime, anywhere. We've never been so close and so intimate.
I will keep you guys posted on all the fun details another time.
-Mistress A
I had trouble to understand that being the dominant one in bed gave him the release he needed. I failed to comprehend that chastity is a lot more than just carrying a key around my neck. So we gave up on it before even trying.
A couple of months ago we started talking about chastity again and I decided to educate myself more on the matter. I started to experiment a little bit and follow the guidelines to see what we could get out of it. After a month of experimenting my opinion has completely changed, I feel like I've been the dominant one all along but just couldn't see it. We are back to a full FLR and I take a great deal of pleasure by making my husband do whatever I want, whenever I want and that makes us both happy. It's been a fun journey having a slave to fulfill my every demand anytime, anywhere. We've never been so close and so intimate.
I will keep you guys posted on all the fun details another time.
-Mistress A