[Yeldarb] Our "New Permanent"

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Re: [Yeldarb] Our "New Permanent"

Postby yeldarb » Mon Nov 13, 2017 1:29 pm

A lovely breast worship/naked cuddle session a few hours after that last post, with Sara squeezing and tweaking my nipples quite hard to make my little penis twitch in its cage.
After initial uncertainty my partner decided that she liked this; started locking me in July 2015; "permanently" locked from Sept 30, 2017 - shared decision; currently wearing CB6ks
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Re: [Yeldarb] Our "New Permanent"

Postby yeldarb » Tue Nov 14, 2017 5:28 am

I forgot to mention that, at the weekend, when she was re-locking me, as usual I sought assurance from Sara that she really did want this (I'm always in need of that reassurance) and she said she wouldn't be doing it if she didn't want to but asked if she actually enjoyed it or got anything out of it she said that I was "a much better person" from her point of view when locked. I loved hearing that!
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Re: [Yeldarb] Our "New Permanent"

Postby Schnoff » Thu Nov 16, 2017 4:28 am

Boy do I know that "needy submissive" who needs to hear that their D-type is really enjoying with they're doing. "You're not just doing this for me, are you?"

That doubt, it turns out, wasn't helpful, at least not around here. Things are better when I just trust that Bear wouldn't be doing what he's doing if he didn't enjoy it.

Things are a million times better since we added touch points. Saying good morning with some touch and asking how each other's night went. Serving breakfast kneeling. Embracing before Bear leaves for work, again when he comes back with a mutual "how was your day", and a final time before bed to say our "kink mantras" :lol: and for Bear to ask me how I've been doing with orgasm denial that day.

s-types thrive on structure, and it's the job of the D-type to provide that structure - in whatever form, that's individual to each couple. The D-type provides the framework for the relationship.

We're getting some kink mentoring, can you tell? I'm loving all of it, and Bear is thriving.
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Re: [Yeldarb] Our "New Permanent"

Postby yeldarb » Thu Nov 16, 2017 6:40 am

Hi Schnoff ... yes, sound of nail being hit on head ... you're absolutely right about structure ... I/we need to work on that. There are various fantasies I have that could be finessed and harnessed to give us that, ones that could be turned in to "low impact" routine rituals in terms of time and effort but definitely ones that punch above their weight in terms of erotic and chastity impact. Thanks for the feedback :-)
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