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by Finn
Tue Sep 11, 2018 10:39 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: A272 long term
Replies: 41
Views: 13853

Re: A272 long term

Just got mine and I have to admit, I'm amazed by the quality. It's a device from Amazon, by way of China, but it's great. It's actually way better than the example picture on the Amazon page. Welds are perfect, and everything is aligned perfectly. As gungadn mentioned, it's a bit sensitive when you ...
by Finn
Mon Sep 10, 2018 10:55 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How long have you been married?
Replies: 100
Views: 53541

Re: How long have you been married?

Together for 30, married for 26. With my bottom for (who lives with us, though we are not as active kink wise as when she didn't live with us) 8 years, and friends with my keyholder for 10 years or so. Poly-ish family, but not really. More of a collective.
by Finn
Sun Sep 09, 2018 12:14 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Personal Best
Replies: 62
Views: 27099

Re: Personal Best

Days without release is only about a week. I get sore/inflamed nut-sack syndrome pretty easy, and have had a few plastic devices break. A new device is on the way, and we'll see. I don't do sports, motorcycle, or tight jeans in chastity, so that's a factor here too. When un-locked, I wear a stainles...
by Finn
Sun Sep 09, 2018 9:50 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Finn] Reverse 80's porn
Replies: 1
Views: 2074

[Finn] Reverse 80's porn

That's how the whole chastity thing got started ror me/us. 26 years married, and early on, I discovered that my wife doesn't enjoy piv sex, after her orgasm. I'd be humping away, and she wasn't into it, and found it a bit uncomfortable. She always orgasm'd first, and I couldn't imagine not having it...
by Finn
Fri Sep 07, 2018 2:36 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Integral locks
Replies: 8
Views: 2732

Re: Integral locks

I'm trying a few metal ones from Amazon. In a pinch, I can swap out the lock mechanism for a bolt. With us, the chastity device is more symbolic, like a collar, than an absolutely secure device. My plastic devices keep breaking, and we're looking for a design that is decently discreet under jeans.
by Finn
Fri Sep 07, 2018 11:49 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Integral locks
Replies: 8
Views: 2732

Re: Integral locks

I'm about to buy one with an integral lock. Hoping it holds up! Not something I'd take to a locksmith for repairs!!!
by Finn
Thu Sep 06, 2018 9:30 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 1046
Views: 1490223

Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

My wife and my keyholder are two different people. My keyholder is one of our (kinky) best friends. I lock up in the morning, and unlock at night. That leaves some time at home where, if my wife is in the mood, and I'm unlocked, I often get hard, before she sends me off to lock up and get ready. My ...
by Finn
Mon Aug 13, 2018 10:26 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Realistic dildo
Replies: 10
Views: 4454

Re: Realistic dildo

We only use a strap-on that I wear. The best recent discovery has been having me wear one of the clear, soft jelly like chastity devices. It's far better than having my original equipment flopping about, and much better than the bulkier and intrusive CB device that I wear daily. It tucks everything ...
by Finn
Mon Aug 13, 2018 5:11 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity Contracts/Agreements
Replies: 13
Views: 4483

Re: Chastity Contracts/Agreements

I'm in a bit of an unusual situation in that my keyholder is a best friend of my wife and I. Partly as a result of this, we have always had guidelines and rules, but as others have noted, these tend to evolve and change as life evolves and changes. Recently we got a solid sense of where we want thin...
by Finn
Sat Jun 16, 2018 11:35 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hello
Replies: 3
Views: 2203

Re: Hello

Hey there! Self locked, or for someone? Enjoy the experience!