Chastity Forums

Thanks TCS, I appreciate you weighing in. Love to hear from others. I really would like to create some sort of recommended table based on the experiences of others. Obviously there is no true "one size fits all", but I am trying to come up with one for my reference. The collective opinions...

what would your chart say?

(I am 48)

I have read much Taoist literature that specifies how often a male should ejaculate based on his age and general health status. The older he gets, the less often he should ejaculate for the sake of optimum health (as it says) For example, once a man reaches age 50, it's often suggested that he ejacu...

agreed! take your time and think carefully about how you want to tell her......speak in terms of you "preparing" to be a great man for a woman......you are going trhough a journey or something.

I hope you continue on your journey, but I also hope you pursue this woman of interest. Why shouldn't she know? Perhaps she'll be supportive. It's normally (typically, not always) unwise to self-censure. I know there are many reasons for chastity. It's possible that some of them make it harder to me...

Love Is Teasing performed by the Chieftains and Marianne Faithful.

I think Tom (as usual) makes very good sense here. Annual goals are tough. (trust me, I was in the middle of one when a medical condition caused my wife and I to pause on our goals.) I recommend starting with the cycle you describe. Then at the end of each cycle, simply ask yourselves....do you star...

I concur. I have been "testing" my wife lately because I have grown weary of wearing my device. I have been wanting to see if she'd still have sex while I was unlocked. Well, JUST this morning it became explicitly clear that she would not have ANY sort of sexual contact with me unless I am...

Hi Rob,

Look down the posting list a couple of days ago. I sort of changed the topic to "chastity or celibacy"

Thanks for asking. It has been almost four months.

David

Very well said Thomas! I find it interesting that various internet groups that have "alternative sex practice" themes often exhibit some of the worst close-mindedness. I admit I grow weary of the dismissal of the religious as "close-minded extremists". Think of the absurdity of t...