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Back when I was edging (not allowed masturbation now), that was how we kept things "full", so to speak. Either on my own, or supervised. Now we go the opposite route, and have longer periods of denial, with near zero stimulation. With edging and stimulation, plus long periods without ejacu...

> and something that was so much part of daily life, becomes a gross habit that you reluctantly engage in once every month or two You do you. Whatever quacks your duck. That's important to say, because there really is no right or wrong way, as long as everyone is happy, lovingkindness is the goal, ...

cuyahoga wrote:I feel like all submissive fetishes are a catch-22...

What’s the worst thing you can do to a masochist? Nothing.

I want my wife to deny me an orgasm, so how can I then say I want an orgasm. She can’t deny me something I don’t want.

That is essentially the trap isn't it? It's a crazy journey!

It all starts with feeling bad about masturbating, and then one day, it's forbidden! Hope it works out for you!

A couple of things have changed for me. One was having a vasectomy years ago. Less volume, and a different look, obviously. The other is duration between ejaculations. Over a month, and there is an increase in volume, and the longer I go, the less appealing the consistency to some degree (I'm learni...

Finn wrote: "...the odd time I'm allowed to masturbate, I feel like an ex-smoker who's bought a pack, and feels dirty for indulging the craving, before tossing the rest away and quitting again" Last Sunday, being out of the cage after PIV lovemaking, I masturbated for the first time in a ...

Having had a denial fetish for forever, I've found that the best masturbation fantasies were always denial ones. The more severe the denial, the better the edging fantasy, and eventual orgasm. Nothing makes me want to masturbate more than the thought of denial, and nothing gets me aroused better. Ov...

For me, the correct size is a fine balance between being loose enough that I don't get inflamed skin, and not having things so loose that my balls pull through the ring too often. When I really need to hide the cage, I have a shorter CB3000 that is better for sitting and being inconspicuous, but isn...

jfenoffti wrote:

fuzzydunlop wrote:
When I was ... insecure ... the performance anxiety killed it sometimes despite being healthy .... When I stopped worrying about my performance, the self fulfilling prophecy went away.

Just like golf!

That's just "fore" play!

Once we dropped male orgasm from sex, everything changed for sure. Most of the time now, I'm locked, and we use a strap-on that I wear. Odd situation that my wife is not my keyholder. At any rate, it's very rare that "the original equipment" is put to use anymore, which suits my wife and m...