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[quote="slave d"Perhaps i’ve misconstrued what was intended and in that case i apologise, but i’m certainly not about to take advice from somebody to “decouple chores from” anything i wish !! [/quote] Fair enough. I was responding to the OP, and their situation in their marriage. Because o...

> I worry that this thread makes me come across like some kind of pervert Eh, define "some kind of pervert". Ask most folk, and wearing a chastity device - or coming only with permission - puts you squarely in that box, anyway. Relax. You are among Internet friends. :D Personally, no, orga...

> I was wondering how people arrived at the chastity fetish. Masturbatory habits from teenage years to start with: I've always loved being aroused for extended periods of time. Not that I scoffed at orgasm, mind you. And then a partner, now my husband, who said "I want to decide when you come&q...

We've added something to our routine recently, at the urging of Mistress Sky, our mentor. We've got daily touch points now, and they really help with feeling connected. One of those is that my husband asks me in the evening how I'd been doing with orgasm denial that day. I have a chance to share, an...

In our case, there is a power dynamic on top of the marriage. I don't come because my husband doesn't want me to, not because it "keeps me on my best behavior". Household chores are shared. They should be anyway, with or without a power dynamic or chastity or anything of that sort. The &qu...

I’ve been asking her to see someone for twelve years. I would have no problem going to see someone together, but I’m pretty sure it’s not me, and together wouldn’t be as productive as her getting some work done on her own. That was kinda where I was at, years ago. It turns out, it's never just one ...

Boy do I know that "needy submissive" who needs to hear that their D-type is really enjoying with they're doing. "You're not just doing this for me, are you?" That doubt, it turns out, wasn't helpful, at least not around here. Things are better when I just trust that Bear wouldn'...

Edit - post removed on request. It was heartfelt and honest and got very personal.

I'm having a hard time envisioning where the balls go in relation to the shaft in your design, because there does not appear to be a gap between tube and ring. I do think you need a gap. It looks like you're trying to get to something similar to what Steelwerks is doing: http://www.steelwerksextreme...

I meant giving your partner pleasure and knowing that she will come, while you won't. As something that doesn't need to be discussed but just is. I find that to be a quite exciting and satisfying mindset to be in. I'm not entirely sure what you mean by "denial" vs "control" - may...